Ok. I am 18 and in college. My mom paid for college(private college), my car(2006 imapala) and the apartment(about $900 monthly) i live in. Basically she has paid for everything. Furniture, flat screen tv and ect. I am a lesbian and she is really not ok with it. She use to try to change how I dress but since she is very busy now, she dosen’t bother. I wanted to get a hair cut and I ask her first since i know she will be mad if i do it and not ask. She said i couldn’t and that I had to let it grow out. I cut it all off in october and not it is about 1.5 inches but it’s curly. She said that since i wear boy clothes, don’t wear make up or jewelry, and don’t wear tight clothes to show my curves, it’s hard to tell if i am a girl and for that reason i can’t cut my hair. Me being a stud, i really don’t care if i look like a guy. i don’t want to but it just happens and i don’t mind as long as i am comfortable. i need a good argument to why i should have it cut.(my mom is a lawyer)
the job thing i did and she got mad. i joined the military and she is pissed. me being grown dosen’t matter to her as long as she is paying for stuff. because of that, i got a job in the military and now she is mad so yeah….
Originally posted 2010-06-30 15:30:44. Republished by Old Post Promoter
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#1 by whisker71 at July 1st, 2010
Uh, because you’re a grown-up and can do whatever the hell you want with your life?
#2 by pinkgirl at July 4th, 2010
how about that its your hair, on your head, and you have a right to choose how to cut it.
#3 by jurassicparkz08 at July 7th, 2010
If she is paying for all that, just give in a little let your hair grow out. We all have to do stupid things for the people we love.
#4 by Sue J at July 7th, 2010
It’s your hair, your life, so start owning it. Stop sponging off your mother and get a job, then you won’t feel the need to cave to her opinion.
#5 by Beth B at July 9th, 2010
As long as your mom is still paying for college, your car and the place you live, then technically you are still under her roof and she has the right to tell you what to do. I’m sure it sucks, but maybe you could get a job, pay for your own apartment and pay your own tuition, in which case you can get your hair cut however you want.
#6 by ramblin' robert at July 10th, 2010
Ask her if she loves you unconditionally. She’ll say, “Of course I do”, Then ask her if she is helping you start your own life with school and all that other stuff unconditionally as well. Ask her if it isn’t good enough that you are a good, kind. loving, motivated person? Then ask her why she places so much importance on a haircut, then cut it. Big guns, and logic. Good Luck.
#7 by mabster60 at July 12th, 2010
Girlfriend, time to stand up to Mom and tell her like it is. Give up the flat, the flatscreen, and most definitely the Impala. Real babydikes drive jeeps and beatup pickup trucks and live in coldwater flats or trailer parks. Grow a backbone for chrissakes and get a job….
#8 by MapDark at July 13th, 2010
Time to let go of your mom . sell the car to her if you have to .. pay your studies and tell her to shut up about your life..
She may be your mom .. but you’Re an adult and you should’nt have to ASK for a damned haircut .. it’s ridiculous..